Teenage string bikini model4/28/2024 I would love to hear from any moms who faced a similar choice, and I'd want to know what you chose, and in retrospect, do you feel you made the right choice or not, and why? If you believe a 13 year old is simply too young for a cheeky/thong bikini, I respect your opinion but this isn't really what I'm asking for. Would I be sending a bad message if I don't let her get one? Like implying there is something wrong with her, or her new friends? Or if I let her, is there some huge negative I haven't thought of? I am wondering what the pros and cons are to letting her get that kind of bikini. Partly to fit in with her new friends, also she likes to be trendy, and she thinks they are cute. So, of course my daughter desperately wants that kind of bikini too. The girls don't seem overly sexualized either, just normal middle school girls from everything I've seen. Plus there is always a parent somewhere nearby supervising. I asked another mom here if she ever worries about anything inappropriate, like them getting the attention of men, and she said no, thongs are so common it's not a big deal. I was kind of shocked at first, but it is apparently part of the culture here, and many girls wear them. The other girls wear extremely cheeky bikinis (either almost thongs or actual thongs). This being Hawaii, they hang out on the beach as much as I hung out at the mall around their age, which I think is healthy. I was worried she would feel socially isolated, but to my surprise and delight, she has made a group of friends, mostly girls from the islands. My 13 y/o daughter is doing a school program in Hawaii for several months, and we've been living here in an Airbnb (important for context, not bragging I swear!). If you don't see your post in the new section, please message the mods. Want to share a blog? Please link it in our monthly blog thread, and don't forget to post it at /r/mombloggers! Downvotes are for comments that add nothing to the discussion. Please don't downvote opinions just because you disagree with them. We've been there (some more than others) and we want to help. Please feel free to post ANY question, no matter how "silly" or irrational you think it is. Offers or requests of assistance are not allowed and may result in a ban. Unkind comments or personal attacks may result in a ban. "Am I pregnant?" and preg test posts will be removed.īe Kind. Moms only, whether commenting, or posting. NO blogs or surveys outside the stickied monthly blog/survey post, absolutely NO promotions/advertising. We want to be here for other moms who are going through the same experiences and offer a helping hand. It may not always be pretty, fun and awesome, but we do it. We are moms mucking through the ickier parts of child raising.
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